Communication will help debt problems

Living under the weight of debt is hard.So first we need to start savings in various ways. Living under the weight of debt when concealing it from your partner is hellish, and that applies whether you are hiding all the debt from them or merely reducing it to a size which will make their consumption of it more palatable.

If you recognise yourself in this, be warned. It can break families and relationships into pieces that may never get picked up again. Face up to the fact that although you may be trying to protect your partner/relationship/family by keeping the severity of the situation away from them, your deception will cause a stress of its own.

The short term relief of denial can very quickly bite you in the behind. This will happen when your situation compounds to the point when there’s no escaping it, because you’re maxed out on credit everywhere you turn and you face homelessness. This level of debt can’t be conveniently swept under the carpet; as the adage goes: “If you continually sweep things under the carpet, eventually you’ll get a crick in your neck from stooping to avoid the ceiling.” There’s also the possibility that your partner will blame you for not informing them of how bad the situation had become, or of not managing the money better.

But this is supposed to be a partnership and it the debt needs to be faced with your eyes wide open. Communication is the key, whether that’s with your partner or the bank, so stop covering it up and look it in the face. It’s the only way to resolve it. There are loads of solutons out there to help. Debt Management, Consolidation Loans, IVA, and hopefully not, but you never know, Bankrupty. The early you deal with it the less drastic the solution.